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By Sukhmandir Khalsa, About.com Guide to Sikhism

The History of Keeping Up

Friday October 9, 2009

Our Ten Gurus have a history of not giving into defeat.

Attempting to complete a complex technical assignment by its deadline, I encountered hours of obstacles. No sooner did I figure out where I had gone wrong, then I'd find myself up against a brand new problem. Encountering difficulty over and again, I became very anxious. I remembered the story of Jetha and Third Nanak, Guru Amar Das.

Guru Amar Das had given Jetha the task of building a platform for the Guru to sit upon. Jetha's brother-in-law Rama, the husband of the Gurus eldest daughter Bibi Dani, received a similar task. When their platforms were completed, Guru found them unsuitable, and asked for them to be torn down and rebuilt. After rebuilding, Guru found imperfections, and requested them to rebuild again. Rama gave up when Guru asked him to rebuild his third platform. Jetha kept on task, tearing down and rebuilding his platform seven times over. When Guru told him once again to tear down and rebuild, he fell at Guru's feet and asked to be forgiven for his lack of understanding, requesting his Guru to bless him with the wisdom to accomplish his task. Guru Amar Das embraced Jetha, praising his willingness, capacity for service, and self sacrifice, promising that he and seven generations of his heirs should someday sit upon the throne of Nanak.

I relaxed a little. After all, the tools I hand at hand had a purpose. I just had to keep at it until I figured out how they worked. Little by little my efforts began to pay off.

There is more to the story, for a lineage has a mother as well as father. Jetha's wife, Bhani, the youngest daughter of Guru Amar Das, lovingly attended him. One day when the Guru sat deep in meditation, she noticed the leg of his seat about to give way, and rushed to support his weight with her arm. The Guru opened his eyes to see that Bibi Bhani had suffered injury, and had begun bleeding from the arm which held him. He asked what favor he might bestow in return for her selfless act. She requested that she, and her heirs, might continue to ever serve the Guru. At the time of his departure from the world, Guru Amar Das bestowed the title of Guru to Bhai Jetha, naming him Raam Das Fourth Guru.

I went through a range of emotions, feeling like an entire scale of low notes to high on a musical keyboard, while trying to determine the proper technical methods, so that I might succeed. When finally I accomplished my task, I felt utter elation. I'm so very thankful to have had such an invaluable learning opportunity, and very pleased that it avails me the ability to serve.

Comments

February 10, 2009 at 3:08 pm
(1) Mai Harinder Kaur says:

Bhenji, forgive me, this is not about your post.

I find it annoying that when I come to your Sikh site that I see an ad for The Book Of Mormon. I know you have no control over this; however, perhaps the good people at About.com might put it in a more appropriate place if they know your readers object.

It’s just that living in a “Christian” country, people are constantly trying to christianise me. I go to Sikh sites to get a break from that.

Chardi kala always!

Mai

February 10, 2009 at 3:42 pm
(2) Sukhmandir Kaur says:

We guides here on the Religion Channel have discussed that same issue many times. Like you many people are not thrilled and in fact are downright annoyed about coming to their particular religions site and finding other religions intruding. It seems that these are Google ads over which About does not have complete say. Ironically enough the Book of Mormon helps to support the sites of Sikhs, Catholics, Wiccans, Buddhists, Hindus and Muslims with their interference… My kids tell me just to be happy – it could be worse, at least the ads are God oriented, (and they are not asking us for money LOL).

July 11, 2009 at 11:55 pm
(3) shraddha says:

great informative blog..

July 11, 2009 at 11:56 pm
(4) shraddha says:

great informative blog…

October 12, 2009 at 2:56 pm
(5) Susan Adcox says:

This is a great lesson for us all, especially those of us whose vocation is writing. The Muse is always telling me to tear it down and write it again.

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